Arya Streeona Dharmo Athva Kumarika Dharm Dharmpatni Ane Stree Jivan

This Jain text, titled "Arya Streeona Dharmo athva Kumarika Dharm, Dharmpatni ane Stree Jivan" (The Duties of Noble Women, or The Duties of a Maiden, A Housewife, and Women's Life) by Mavji Damji Shah, published by Chandanben Maganlal, is a guide focusing on the ideal conduct and responsibilities of women in Jainism.

The book is divided into sections addressing different stages and aspects of a woman's life. It begins by emphasizing the importance of personal purity and hygiene, extending to the cleanliness of clothing and a respectful approach to life. The text highlights the significance of prayer and devotion, urging adherence to religious practices and the contemplation of divine virtues.

A considerable portion of the book is dedicated to the duties of a maiden (kumari), covering:

• Personal Hygiene and Appearance: Maintaining cleanliness of the body and attire.
• Purity of Conduct: Emphasizing modesty, chastity, and a good reputation.
• Obedience to Elders: Respecting and following the guidance of parents and elders.
• Time Management: Utilizing time effectively and avoiding idleness.
• Daily Rituals: Performing daily religious duties with devotion.
• Household Skills: Learning essential domestic skills like cooking.
• Social Interaction: Maintaining good relationships with friends and participating in community gatherings appropriately.
• Spiritual Pursuits: Engaging in pilgrimages and spiritual learning.
• Education: Valuing education and diligence in studies.
• Family Responsibilities: Caring for younger siblings and contributing to family well-being.
• Observing Vows and Rituals: Understanding and adhering to religious practices.
• Hospitality: Being a gracious guest and host.
• Home Management: Maintaining household items and cleanliness.
• Conduct in Public: Walking with grace and awareness.
• Writing Etiquette: Practicing good handwriting and carefulness.
• Physical Fitness: Engaging in exercises for health and strength.
• Helpfulness: Assisting family members in their tasks.
• Positive Attitude: Cultivating a cheerful and joyful disposition.
• Intellectual Development: Reading, reflection, and meditation.
• Decision Making: Developing sound judgment and making informed choices.
• Skill Development: Learning crafts like sewing, embroidery, and knitting.
• Health Knowledge: Understanding basic health and hygiene practices.
• Language Proficiency: Mastering one's mother tongue and learning other languages.
• Mourning Etiquette: Proper conduct during times of death and grief.
• Care during Illness: Providing comfort and care to the sick.
• Financial Prudence: Managing expenses wisely and avoiding extravagance.
• Record Keeping: Maintaining notes and accounts for household matters.
• Awareness of Current Events: Staying informed about societal changes.
• Adjusting to Married Life: Understanding the transition into married life and family.
• Child Rearing: Learning about the care and upbringing of children.
• Compassion and Care: Showing concern for the well-being of others, including dependents and neighbors.
• Future Planning: Reflecting on one's future and making appropriate decisions.
• Artistic Skills: Learning music and other arts.

The book then moves on to the role of a Dharmpatni (Housewife/Wife), defining her as the queen of the household, responsible for its efficient management. It outlines her duties as a minister to her husband, managing household affairs with wisdom and care. The text also emphasizes her role as a mother, responsible for the nourishment and upbringing of children, instilling values and ensuring their well-being. The wife's presence in the bedroom is described as that of an angel or celestial being, creating a peaceful and pleasant atmosphere. It also touches upon the importance of adaptability to household duties and the wisdom of possessing qualities like forgiveness and patience.

Throughout the text, the author emphasizes that women are not inferior to men but possess unique strengths and responsibilities. The book also includes biographical sketches of exemplary Jain women, highlighting their virtues and contributions to inspire readers. The concluding sections address contemporary challenges faced by women, such as ignorance, health issues, inequality, child marriage, the practice of mourning rituals, the use of cosmetics, time management, widowhood, and the importance of self-protection and appropriate Taps (ascetic practices).

Overall, "Arya Streeona Dharmo" serves as a comprehensive guide for Jain women, offering practical advice and moral teachings to lead a virtuous and fulfilling life according to Jain principles.